Dee - I remember how fragile and broken I was when I first landed here. I hadn't quit yet, but knew death awaited me if I didn't. Harsh, judgmental words after my first few posts would have sent me running. I'll never forget your early responses to me. It's no exaggeration to say they helped save my life. 'Tough love' has it's place - and even though I'm not the type to ever use it, I do think it's necessary at times. Just not in response to a newcomer's first few posts! (Or to a returning person's new attempt at getting it right this time.) Sarcasm, belittling, judging - very hurtful when we're just trying to reach out for some empathy & understanding.
As always, thank you Dee for your unwavering support and concern for us.