Originally Posted by YCDT2

Ive talked to him many many times about it, and he says he understands at the time of the conversation. His dad is a very very bad alcoholic though, and I think he compares. Alcohol has not ruined my life yet, but it has ruined his parents life.

But, why let it ruin you? Why let it get to that point? He doesnt see a problem unless its like that...