Is there another meeting you could try, weaver? I don't do AA or OA, but I hear people talking a lot about having to attend many meetings to find their right "fit."
My husband isn't a PITA, and you don't sound like one either AAPJ
Addiction is hard on a marriage, but marriage itself is just hard, I think. As I'm getting older, I'm noticing a lot more friends/colleagues who are bitter and divorced (not at all that one is necessarily bitter if they are divorced). I don't want to be divorced, but more than that I just really, really don't want to become bitter.
Just thinking out loud
Have a good day, everyone. Mondays are often the day I binge because I'm alone in the house and looking at my weekly work/research schedule. My goal this week is to ease in and not get overwhelmed.