trailmix...the way I look at it----just get it over with....since it will have to come out, one way or the other...
The idea that an alcoholic who still probably harbors the desire to drink...and, hops over the in-laws to announce...."I am an alcoholic who is probably going to rturn to drinking again...so get ready"....seems a bit of a fantasy , to me. I have never, ever, seen an alcoholic do that.....