Originally Posted by
Lakegirl111 
Yes, counselor specializes in addictions and PTSD.
The reason for discussing the plan with my husband was so that the boundary is clear and known and give him the opportunity to tell my parents. (I'm not going to pressure him into telling them at this point. I think it's pretty clear that he's not going to step up and do it.)
Boundaries are personal - they don't HAVE to be explained & clear. He doesn't have to accept your boundaries for them to be right for you. There's no reason to discuss them.
And again, at less than 90 days into recovery, it seems like an aggressive approach to me.