Originally Posted by
SparkleKitty 
I would suggest you just tell your parents what they need to know in case you need to activate your contigency plan.
His recovery from PTSD and his recovery from alcoholism are his responsibility, not yours or your therapists.
Yep. I honestly disagree completely with discussing your contingency plans with the person who may create the situation requiring such a thing. It's illogical, especially with the unpredictability of addiction.
This is why, IMO, separate recoveries are necessary - what is good for one is not necessarily understood by the other. No way he sees this as trust BUILDING on his side - the entire situation exists because you can't trust him to stay sober & therefore
need a Plan B. How else can he hear that, at less than 90 days sober? And it IS exactly what you mean, right?
Does your counselor specialize in addictions?