Thanks so much Blue and Cat
Your responses help! I'm relieved to hear that Sat mornings could potentially be a good time! Maybe if I'm lucky there will be another woman who can give me the skinny on the best times for meetings!
Thanks I needed some optimism and little reassurance and you guys have come through for me - im not dreading it as much now!
And Blue I promise to try to hear the similarities and not focus on the differences - promise x