I equate my ability to say no to drinking to a song lyric that jumped into my head just before I quit 21 days ago. It's from a Hall and Oats song, "The strong give up and move on while the weak give up and stay". I gave up drinking and I am moving on. I am lucky to have a couple of people I can reach out to to get me home from work where my wife helps me stay on track. Get some support people that you can call before you crack open that next beverage.