My husband did the same pattern of things... the camera inside our house and then the mean comments ... he said he wanted to watch the dog while he was at work but would not give me the password for the software. He also got the camera installed while I was at work. Weird as weird can be. I think it's a control issue. When they have no control over themselves, they seek control elsewhere. I unplugged the camera when I was packing to leave- that's what you get for having the camera inside the house and not outside where it belongs. People do weird things when they feel that they are losing control without realising that they are the ones acting crazy, not the whole world around them.