he did rehab/detox not that long ago....was doing well.....and then chose to get loaded, again. he certainly does have other people in his life besides you......he is perfectly capable of taking off, getting dope and living the high life for days at a time, sleeping around, etc.
he is trying to turn you back into a RESOURCE. remember the shape HE left YOUR apartment in??? now he's all oh woe is me, i'm such a lost little boy out here in the wilderness with the bears and wolves. yet two weeks ago he WAS the wolf...........
that he never got a job and held it is HIS problem.
that his family has (supposedly) cut him off is due to HIS actions.
that he has not cultivated friendships.......
that he is broke........
he could have his @ss parked at NA meetings right now.....they are free and he'd be around and connected with other likeminded sober individuals.
AND.....you are not the only number in his call list. it just SEEEEEEMS that way, honey. because you are a sweet caring tender soul
