Originally Posted by
OpheliaKatz 
I mean, normally, unless you have any reason to doubt someone, you believe the things they say.
I think it depends on what is said and in what context and situation.
People come at you with all sorts of agendas and words are, well, just words.
I used to believe in the 'arms wide open' approach until someone gives reasons to doubt.
Now, I like to say I'm from Missouri: The 'Show Me' State.