The narcissistic false sense of entitlement is so troublesome.
Not only are they addicts/alcoholics with an attitude of entitlement
but they are men with an attitude of entitlement towards a family of sober women.
Double jeopardy.
They have a history of using all manner of manipulation and deceit including
abusive verbal (sometimes even email and/or letters) harassment, bullying, guilt,
emotional blackmail and exploitation.
Men who exploit women are pathetic and morally bankrupt,
especially the using and abusing and of their mother, sisters, even their own children.
With his lack of providing for his own family he has put the drugs and alcohol first
and caused hardship for his family.