Originally Posted by
Broken3481 
The last week of our relationship I got the excuse of him needed "me time" and then he disappeared for
Two days after not seeing me all week which never happened before I questioned if our relationship was OK and he responded with "I'm just doing things around the house I don't get to do when ur always here". Im Assuming that meant drink all day with his buddies. He's never told me that before. I'm so confused on why he left
Wow. I’ve heard that excuse before too! “Don’t come up until after 5 because I’m getting ‘stuff’ done” (on a weekend). Or “Hey I actually can’t hang out today anymore, just have too much ‘stuff’ to do” (also on a weekend). At first, I thought what if he’s cheating on me? And then over time I realized he was ... but not with another woman. He was cheating on me with booze.