Originally Posted by pmaslan
2. Get healthy and fight to get us back
If they really love us they will choose option 2.
If they don't love us or themselves they will continue to call for validation and if we continue to answer the nightmare goes on for us.
Patty, do you think that's really possible? To get healthy and fight to get us back? Has that ever happened for anyone here on SR? I'd be curious to see if it has.
Because, the A's have got to get healthy within themselves first before they can ever love anyone else.
My xabf would always tell me..."when I get out of here in a year, hopefully I'll be a better me and I know that I will still love you. Even more then than I do now. I want to spend thee rest of my life with you". That sounds awesome, but I can't hang onto that because I can't trust it. I have to see it.
*sorry for the threadjack, Savana!*