Originally Posted by
SoberLeigh 
I understand your concern, Scotty, that your wife is hiding her alcohol around the house. Do you think that she is hiding it because she doesn't want to trigger you or because she has a real issue with alcohol.
Do you have a Plan B for the party tomorrow? Would your wife feel bad if you didn't attend or if you drove separately so that you could leave early if things became uncomfortable?
She doesn't want to trigger me but she has had a problem and has a hard time accepting that. I've learned that's her sobriety and it's separate from mine. I can be support her, but have made it clear I have to be sober or I will die.
I'm feeling pressure to go so I will. As the big book says trying to alter or avoid the drinking lifestyle is doomed to fail. I think I should confront the experience and being a 1 car family (mine was repossessed) i have a plan to leave if it gets crazy.