sketscher - try photobucket or imageshack. It's dead easy - even I can do it!
I know exactly what you mean about the anger. It is certainly a stage that I had to go through. But raging at my ex has never worked. It didn't make me feel any better because it was in one ear and out the other. I could get no validation whatsoever from him about it. In fact, all I did was give him an excuse to drink on a plate. Best to vent in a journal or on here, I've found.
And the lies? Well, that's what many alcoholics do. Did you read Equus' posts on lying from the other day?