Originally Posted by
AnvilheadII 
regardless of what label you give him......it is his treatment of you that is at question here. would it somehow be OK for him to play hot and cold/come here go away and all his other stunts if he WAS a bona fide alcoholic?
this is more about you than him. even tho your post was all about him.....look at the woman caught up in that......ask yourself why?
You are so right! I’ve asked myself that a million times. For my own learning experience though, if a future guy has drinking habits like this, are they signs of a problem? Or was this more a case of him just being a jerk who enjoys drinking?