Originally Posted by
BlownOne 
In my mind his behavior would classify as alcoholic. What would concern me more is that from what you describe, the guy sounds like a class "A" jerk. And that probably doesn't have much to do with the alcoholism IMHO. Do you really want to waste more time figuring this guy out? Because I can almost guarantee that things will not get better with his drinking. They will get worse. You can do better. Just my take. Wishing you well.
Thank you for your response. I agree I can definitely do better. It’s been difficult because sometimes it feels like I’ve been with two different men, one loving and family-oriented and the other a selfish jerk. I think now I’m wondering moving forward to the future, say in a new relationship if someone has drinking habits like this, would that be a sign to run?