Originally Posted by
akrasia 
Hiya,
he is going to drink the way he drinks and he is not going to change. He says that we should just accommodate each other's failings (like he accommodates my moodiness). Also says his drinking is not so bad.
I just don't see the point of therapy if his position is "I'm going to drink" and my position is "I can't live with the alcohol".
I think I'm just looking for a reality check.
And... has anyone successfully reunited with an alcoholic spouse? How?
I think he's made it clear, he's going to keep drinking like a madman and there is nothing you can do about it. Yet will try therapy in a desperate attempt to verify why his alcohol abuse is ok.
Make a run for it
