Glad to hear that your getting along well with the T.... good for you!
I SO understand this... my ex-abf always did things that were out of the teenage years... orginally I found it enduring ... like he was really intouch with his little boy... He was always goofing off, at 42 doing extreem dirtbike riding (no insurance) .... it took awhile for it to dawn on me that he was not intouch with his little boy, he was the little boy.
One day driving home I get a call from him, he is fighting with my daughter then 15, and they were acting the same.... exactally the same. Its weird looking back on it.