Originally Posted by
biminiblue 
Ohhh. Does she live with you?
My suggestion is buy a house with a separate MIL unit over the garage - or maybe you live in the separate unit and leave the women to it.
According to my wife, she does not “live” with us, she “stays” with us when she is not working as a live-in nanny. At first — 3 years ago — it was only weekends. Now, 3 years later, she only works 3 1/2 days a week, and is with us 4, sometimes 5 nights a week. And did I mention we have to take her on vacation this summer to Cancun?! Yep.
Seriously, it makes this process all the harder. As you knows emotions are amped during early sobriety. Thankfully, she’ll be gone this summer for 2 months.
And check out this text I got from my 10 year old stepdaughter last week:
“If you see chocolate in the kitchen DO NOT TOUCH i’m still making it and DO NOT MOVE IT. K THANKS.”
That is verbatim. Never mind I have owned that home for 10 years and she moved in. That is minor to some of the other sh** I deal with.