Why is he being so hurtful?
welp, just my opinion here but this is what i read:
he said:
I think it kills you that I am happy right now Rachel, I think you want me to be miserable and sad and Im not. I am happy and that drives you nuts because you're not in control."
and you typed:
He was right,
which there could be truth to this,too:
He also said, I think you think Im going to eventually want you back and I am not and I think you think I am going to hit rock bottom and need you but I won't.
it could hurt because its all the truth- its not him being hurtful- its the truth that is hurting. he could keep stringing you along and lieing to you, but he gave his opinion from his view and you seem to have agreed.
I said I don't want to keep hanging out with other couples, its depressing and it doesn't make me happy. He explained he wanted to be around his sister, etc.
then dont go. he is allowed to be around his siter whether you like it or not.
i read a major cause for a lot of this:
My biggest fear, I hate admitting it- is that once I am on my own I will never find love again. I am 33 years old, and all I ever wanted in life was someone to love and accept me
who you need in your life to love you is youself. who you need to accept you is yourself.
its possible to do,too.