Me? I drank money that could have gone to better causes, was obtuse to say the least, and basically ignorant to a lot of my family's needs for most of the day because even evening binge drinking takes up the better part of one's day (and all of the evening). Again these are my personal limits. My 24 yr old son recently forgave me for being absent for the latter half of his life but "I" still feel the sting. True repentance is doing something different. Not drinking no-matter-what is key to my forward movement and frees up gads of time to spend with my 3 daughters. Very much a moral choice for me.