Sad, hurt, angry
I allowed my adult son to home plan with me after being released from prison 6/2018 - alcohol/drugs/parole violation. Why? I believe the best in everyone, believe that everyone needs a chance to succeed. Even an alcoholic/drug addict with a long history. After all, he had been clean and sober for over 3 years, and was currently on medications for his bipolar disease. So I provided food, shelter, and security to begin anew. He obtained his drivers license after many years of suspension, was granted permission by me to drive my secondary car with the mutual agreement no drinking and driving, even got a part-time job, kept up with PO, counselor, etc.
Fast forward...... continued drinking Vodka, of course spiraled into excessive amounts. DWI, car and privileges of driving it taken away, didn't show up for court appearance, warrant for his arrest issued, I called the police after he took off walking highly intoxicated and being verbally abusive to me. Released after time served (just a few days) to homelessness. Now I'm meddling and interfering.
Heavy heart here.