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Old 04-19-2018, 07:51 AM
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atalose
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I agree, if possible you move out for a while. Change of whole environment can really make a big difference rather than staying in the place where resentment has been building. I would add that I don’t think putting a time stamp of a return date on this is beneficial to you at this point.

It was my experience that when I took a break from my ex the first time, he was totally obsessed with when I was coming back. He was a “changed” man going to AA working with his sponsor etc. etc. all in a matter of less than 30 days. He sounded like he changed, his words certainly did, so I went back. That’s when the new cycle of break up – make up – go away- come here began. Talk about a roller coaster ride!
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