I thought all the abuse was down to alcohol and didn’t think they were seperate problems that’s why I was trying to understand why he was doing it and started to feel sorry for him I need to drop the feelings for him as he’s made me feel the lowest of the low I was drinking when I wasn’t with him For the sake of it as I knew He enjoyed it but I don’t have a problem I haven’t even looked at any alcohol so I know him being here was peer pressure .. do you eventually get over it ? It’s more the lies if I’m honest thanks very much for your reply x