Originally Posted by
jada1981 
Thank you everyone for your replies. It helps so much that others know exactly the challenges I am facing! My problem is I am attracted to the shiny objects..in this case the very good-looking guys who are extremely charming, but emotionally unavailable. And the nicer guys seem to "bore" me. I gotta get out of that habit! Not sure what I will do, but if anything, I am looking at this as a good chance for me to practice enforcing my boundaries.
I just want to remind you that this is what you previously did.....the fact that you are finding the same thing uncomfortable now and that all that shimmers is not gold is huge and a sign of your healing, not your illness.