Thank you everyone for your replies. It helps so much that others know exactly the challenges I am facing! My problem is I am attracted to the shiny objects..in this case the very good-looking guys who are extremely charming, but emotionally unavailable. And the nicer guys seem to "bore" me. I gotta get out of that habit! Not sure what I will do, but if anything, I am looking at this as a good chance for me to practice enforcing my boundaries.