What’s that joke………….
On a first date how do you know you are dating a codependent - because they show up with a U-Haul!! lol
But it can be true, we tend to map out our whole future with people that we don’t really even know yet.
We have to learn how to date in healthy ways, know when to cut someone loose when it’s not working. Not be afraid to tell them you no longer wish to date them. See the red flags for the warnings they are and not as signs that someone needs us to help them, fix them or mend their lives.
Maybe I am old fashion where I actually want to meet someone face to face right from the start and not over some old outdated picture online and Mr. Wonderful messages and phone calls – you know that saying – if it’s too good to be true it probably is.