jada.....OMG....I tthink those sites are a formula for destroying self esteem.....
And, they aren't any more effective for attaining your goal that the time tested way that we have met and mated for all these millennia....
I have always found that one meets the right people when they are busy doing life....doing activities that you like...
You would probably do much better by going to meet-up groups that are focused around some activity. You can find them in a google search in just ab out every location. Since, you are an attorney, I am pretty sure that you w ill be located in or near an urban area.....
A beautiful (already confirmed as such...lol) woman with a good brain and a good personality and has her "stuff" together...shouldn't have much trouble finding acceptable men if you put a little strategic effort into it.....
No more swiping! It is not good for your mental health.