Originally Posted by
MindfulMan 
I find the use of the terms "family values" and "native beliefs" in #12 very ambiguous. My original question was what they mean in the context of your OP.
What are some specific examples of these which are the "best ones" on which to base a recovery?
The terms are actually “Your own native beliefs and original family values...”
For how I based my recovery, I would say enlightened-self interest without sacrificing discipline, trustworthiness, compassion, personal integrity, self-respect, high standards of intelligence, learning, forgiveness of self and others, and love.
There are also some great discussions of family values and native beliefs online.