Originally Posted by
Gottalife 
I have one AA friend just turned 20 years, who has an amazing spiritual life.
Mike, I would love to read what your friend's amazing spiritual life is like, and what he did to get there.
But their job is NOT to tell me what to do, it is to help me find what God's will is for me.
I've heard this too. It's easier to be sponsor-dependent, more difficult to be God-dependent, but that is the key.