Welcome SoberMe
I'm sorry it's taken something like this to lead you to decide to stop drinking, but you will find support here.
I think you did the right thing telling your wife and marriage counselling sounds like a pretty good idea too. I know it's hard not to focus on that stuff but so give some though to how you're going to stay sober as well.
It should be pretty easy short term given the regret and shame and your wife's anger but none of those things have a tendency to last, whereas our commitment to sobriety has to be enduring
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