Thank you for that. There are some tough ideas in there. My boys are VERY well behaved and good kids - I would say naturally but I thing I set a good tone when they were younger. They spent half their time with their narcissistic father who is a decent parent but definitely not who I’d want my kids to become. There aren’t any close male family role models and they aren’t interested in sports. They’re more, perhaps nerdy and of course play a lot of video games. Not sure where I’m going w this but I guess I hope they become their own good men.
I need to work heavily on their roles at home. I make them do little but need to work on that.
I guess the bottom line is your points are all well taken and I agree. Now just to implement