You've done all the planning and thinking now it's time to let go, rest yourself.
No problem is so big that it's urgent that you try to solve it before taking care of you. I remember 20 years ago when I went to the bank and said, "don't call me again. Call my husband. He's an alcoholic. Forclose on the mortgage if you need to." It was a turning point in my life. I had to completely leave my home up to the power of God. I had two young children at the time who needed a mommy who was mentally healthy, and trying to figure out every month how to fix the financial problem of my husband's drinking was not healthy for me. It was the right decision for me. It was also the decision that voted for treating a grown man with the respect to assume he could live up to his responsibilities. I had to accept what I couldn't control. I can only make decisions for me alone.