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I have classic passive-aggression symptoms. I am not an "addict" as such and have no problems with typical addictions but do need help.
Since childhood I have been what I thought was a normal life and I will soon be 71. I have been married to my second wife for just short of 20 years and our marriage is about to fall apart.
If you read through the lists of traits that PA's exhibit I check off 9 out of 10.
I keep telling myself that I can hold in the problems but I can't go a full day without distressing my wife. I have gone to counselling but after a session or 2 I can't help but I start blaming anyone but myself.
help.