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Old 03-22-2018, 12:04 PM
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Sunflowerlife
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Originally Posted by venuscat View Post
Nope Sunflower my love, you are not too needy.....I am going to sound mean now, but I 86 friends like that....not sure if that means here what it means in Australia....but I have no room or time for people like that. Self-centred. You need friends in your life who care about how YOU are....
I know what you mean, I do. I am slowly learning this about her over time. But really, she's 1 of 2 friends I have in this town. I love her dearly, she's just a little self centered- she doesn't get it. She doesn't realize she is doing it.
The day I told her I was coming to terms with the fact that my marriage was over she sympathized for about 30 seconds and then turned it into a conversation about her and her husband (who she gets along really well with.) I was so hurt but I brushed it off. My best friend who truly listens and offers advice lives in Florida
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