"The silent treatment is the absolute worst! To me it is a spirit killer"
YES! Although I haven't really experienced a full fledged silent treatment in the last couple of months, I have experienced some sulking and sarcasm from my husband. That is hurtful also. I am realizing I can't change him, so I'm working on changing how my feelings respond to this treatment. After many years, it's not easy, but I guess it's the only way to cope without drinking.