What does shock me a little I suppose is that he has always dated "strong smart women" myself included. He has no respect for his mother, I frankly have no respect for her either...she is an overly educated self righteous idiot who has allowed her children to be raised in alcoholism and abuse yet hides behind some idea of "Christianity"....to me she is just disgusting and I cannot even stand to be in her presence.
If you have children with this man, you will become the woman who allows her children to be raised in alcoholism and abuse. What will you hide behind?
Don't get pregnant! If you want to stay with him, get your tubes tied.
If you want a happy family life with children, this man is not a candidate.
Been there, by the way. Wish I could say I left before I had babies with him.