Originally Posted by Brammy
Ho do I make them understand that I can't save him? I don't know if they want me to save him or just take a problem off their hands. I don't know how to make it any clearer that I won't take that responsibility?
I know it's hard. And maybe it would have been best if you didn't go over there for dinner tonight. There is nothing wrong with remaining friends, but you have set your boundaries with him. No one understands the way that you do.
You can't make them understand. You could talk till your blue in the face....it just won't work. Just like all of us, you have to see things for yourself and apparently she just isn't seeing it.
Take care of you.