Thank you for sharing, Noor. I especially like how you wrote about the financial and emotional wreckage of a divorce. That sums it up for me. Great reminder about dealing with addiction as one thing, physical and/or emotional abuse is another and there is no going back. I learned this the hard way. Because I kept extending that line each time because he was "sorry". I never experienced any type of recovery with my xah and when others on SR or alanon say that recovery looks like recovery I never really understood what they meant. From here on out, I will reference your post as that definition for myself. Great share.