So glad to hear that you have been able to detach this much Smarie. After leaving my xabf, I definitely felt periodic anger but that faded and all I feel now and for some time is compassion for him and perhaps a bit of collegiality in that life is hard for all of us and it has certainly brought me to my knees on many occasions like it has him.
I'm curious about his description of his frostbite, gangrene and coming amputation. Has he usually been accurate in describing his various woes and ailments?