Originally Posted by Eauchiche

Dear COD
In my county in California, anyone can look at the Superior Court website and see if papers have been filed, even before the respondent is served.
The fact that her is family is sending her money seems a little suspicious, Perhaps they have looked online?
Do you have friends at your church you could stay with during your recovery? I am concerned that you are facing a lot of post-op trauma if you stay with her.