Originally Posted by
Wamama48 
That's just devastating. Its so hurtful that they have to be so selfish to recover. I can't wrap my mind around it. Honestly, I think after they quit drinking, it hurts more than when they were. I've been thinking about you all day, and I hope you can get what you want, need and deserve.
It does hurt more Wamama48, but they also need to come to terms with their past actions and behaviour, memories and deal with the present challenges of sobriety and the big bad world without alcohol. I am willing to give him the space and time he needs even though I do feel he could at least check in once a day to see how his family is doing. I also know my husband, when he sets his mind to something, he will go for it and maybe this is him going for it. He told me he was horrified at how much he's hurt the family. I hope we can work through that with the foundation our marriage had an pray for a good outcome as at the moment the girls awake very early because they miss their daddy.