I am sorry for your situation, that sounds horrible.
Physical abuse is NOT ok.
I hope you find the strength to leave or this will be how the rest of your life is spent. Sad.
A "lovely home" that is tainted by abuse.
"things" can be replaced. A "Lovely home" can be rebuilt, on a solid respectful ground.
I am sure you'll get good advice here, it's up to you do make the change. Maybe Alanon?
Counseling?
Best wishes to you,
DC
I feel sad about this post.