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hopeful4 I get it. My XAH whom I was with for 20 years did something similar. He would just do these things even after we had agreed on them, then act like I was crazy for getting upset.
I realized later, I was not crazy, just a fool for expecting him to change. The best predictor of future behavior....is past behavior.
I am sorry you are hurting. It stinks all around.
Yup - I have some hard decisions to make.