What am I supposed to do? I cannot take the sneaking around and lying to my face anymore.
Well when I was in your position I had two choices. Put up with how he was or leave cos he was never going to change. His interest in any recovery was zero even tho if I had a dollar for every time he said "Starting from tomorrow I will".......stop drinking, get help.......whatever he thought he needed to say to shut me up and get me off his case for a little bit longer. Tomorrow never came and in the end he stopped even pretending he was going to seek recovery. I left and it was the lies that broke our marriage. By the time we split up I had nothing left but contempt for him. I was sick of the gas lighting, the denial, the
way he got other people on his side and made me look to be the bad person. Only you know if it is worth staying or not.