Originally Posted by
Nightowl45 
If she loves me, she will stay, if not..she will leave. After all its about me.
good on ya for making the decision.
imma gonna add one last thing( i think anyways):
her staying or leaving doesnt determine if she loves you or not. she can leave and still love you.
YOUR recovery is about you.
HER life is about her- she should be putting her wellbeing first just as you should be putting your well being first.