Old 02-18-2018, 11:11 PM
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Nightowl45
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Originally Posted by Snowydelrico View Post
Hi night owl,
In my experience it gets harder and harder to keep it together driving wedge after wedge between the relationship.
If she loves you she will support you in your decision to quit.
It’s very sneaky the booze. It just takes a little at a time giving you time to adjust and adapt to that way of life.
It inevitably ends up **** up wishing that you’d done something about it.
Do it now, not when you’re old and alone.
Alcohol is bigger than people like us. Don’t let it fool you.
Take care
I know, I know. I have a first hand expirience with that. In my past relasionship I did the same thing. Concealing my drinking from loved one. Then after a year or so into the relasionship, I started testind her, randomly showing up up with a six pack of beer once a week, then twice a week....then after 2,5 year time, It developed into six pack every night and we broke up.
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