Hi night owl,
In my experience it gets harder and harder to keep it together driving wedge after wedge between the relationship.
If she loves you she will support you in your decision to quit.
It’s very sneaky the booze. It just takes a little at a time giving you time to adjust and adapt to that way of life.
It inevitably ends up **** up wishing that you’d done something about it.
Do it now, not when you’re old and alone.
Alcohol is bigger than people like us. Don’t let it fool you.
Take care